Is He Worth Waiting For? Well… Probably not
So you are thinking about giving him an ultimatum, leave her and be with me and thinking that will finally shake him from his hesitation. Chances are likely that you’ll get the exact opposite of what you wanted in the first place.
A relationship is give and take and unyielding to anything or being unwilling to compromise on every issue isn’t good either. Every single issue in your life is not a moral issue and you really need to be able to tell the difference. In so doing you’ll find that your energy will be amplified and you’ll also find that everything you do will be supported by the universe. If it still doesn’t work out then and you really have managed to clean all of your emotional and metaphysical laundry then and only then is the time to look at the person you are pursuing and shine a light of objectivity on them. just because something seems like it is impossible doesn’t mean that it is and in most cases someone who tells you that you are the problem or something you did is the problem is trying to disguise a problem they are having on their own.
Take for example the classic “He loves me but he is with her” situation. Now there is more than one possibility here and only one of them is that statement is true. The other, especially if that relationship has turned into an affair is simple selfishness, on his part or yours. Very few people who have an affair with one another actually end up together 80% of women think their spouse will never cheat and 50% of men have so those numbers have to correlate somewhere. Another possibility is that he is using you for not only what you do for hi physically but also how you make him feel. A lot of people love that new relationship feel and I am sure you can empathize even if it comes at the cost of someone else’s happiness.
Be careful when treading those murky waters in most cases it is best to find someone more available unless you hear from a source you can trust that your belief in the future of this flowering is something worth keeping.
Be Well, Max
